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Clear the Desk

Clear the Desk

It's a Tuesday, and the request has been sitting in your box since the first of the month. Four days in March. His daughter turns ten, his wife found a cabin down in Hocking Hills, and his in-laws want to fly in from Arizona if it's actually happening. You've looked...

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Write It Down

Write It Down

I was driving home from work when a retired general on The Art of Manliness podcast described a briefing he sat through in 1991. Mark Hertling was an Army major in Germany with two boys at home, ten and seven, and he was told his cavalry squadron could take casualties...

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Side by Side

Side by Side

We were sitting at a fire, and nobody was talking. We both knew there was hardship there, and neither of us was saying anything about it. Then, with tears streaming down his face, all the weight he had been carrying opened up and came out. Nobody had asked him how he...

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Silence is Not Agreement

Silence is Not Agreement

Watch the room the next time you roll out a decision. If every head is nodding, you have a problem. People who believe in an idea do not nod at it. They speak up, they add to it, they start solving for it before you finish the sentence. Nodding is what a room does...

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I am the Fix-It Father

I am the Fix-It Father

My kid was working on a craft project at the kitchen table the other night. He was struggling with how much glue to use and where to put it. Naturally, seeing his frustration grow and fearing the mess that would likely ensue, I took over. I had the glue placed, the...

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Loneliness at the Top

Loneliness at the Top

In 1991, a journalist named John Byrne gave a phenomenon a name: CEO-Disease. This phenomenon is exactly why it feels lonely at the top. It describes the information vacuum that forms around a leader when subordinates learn, through experience or observation, that...

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The Smallest Unit of Change

The Smallest Unit of Change

Anne Frank wrote, "How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world." She wrote that hiding in an attic. Thirteen years old. Surrounded by genocide. Her instinct wasn't to wait for rescue or permission. It was to start....

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Small Lessons in the Mundane

Small Lessons in the Mundane

There’s a lesson buried in the small moments of our lives. Often it goes unnoticed. We move through our days on autopilot—steady, predictable, and safe. We find comfort in the status quo. The same drive to work. The same order from Starbucks. The same routines that...

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Checkpoint Me

Checkpoint Me

Leadership isn’t about being everywhere. It’s about knowing when to show up. There was a time when I thought being CC’d on everything was good leadership. I wanted visibility. I wanted to stay in the loop. I wanted to make sure nothing slipped through the cracks. But...

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You Don’t Have to Lose it to Love It.

You Don’t Have to Lose it to Love It.

We talk a lot about burnout. We don’t talk enough about what we still have. You’re in the middle of something meaningful. But I’ve seen enough people walk away from the job—some by choice, others not—and almost all of them wish they’d appreciated it sooner. Not the...

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Culture isn’t a Committee

Culture isn’t a Committee

In law enforcement, we tend to treat “culture” like it’s something abstract. A concept we assign to HR, address in an annual training, or delegate down the chain of command. Throw in a few laminated value cards, a mission statement on the wall, and check the box....

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The Subtle Art of Self-Sabotage

The Subtle Art of Self-Sabotage

We are saboteurs by nature. Not rebels against a monarchy or an empire—but disruptors in our lives. Each day presents small, quiet moments with the potential to nudge us forward—personally, professionally, or creatively. Yet these opportunities often slip past us...

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Are You Busy or Are You Productive?

Are You Busy or Are You Productive?

As I walked through the convention center hallway, the cloud of dust in the air sent my sinuses into a frenzy. The noise of a banging hammer and the whirl of a drill told me what I hadn’t yet seen: this was a construction zone. The building was undergoing massive...

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The Ride.

The Ride.

There is a kind of freedom that those who experience it know intimately. It is the union of man and machine, man and earth, man and himself. It is a freedom that cannot be replaced or replicated by any other means—the freedom of solo riding a motorcycle. The wind...

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The ‘Go-To’ Danger

The ‘Go-To’ Danger

I’ve seen multiple organizations unintentionally hinder their own growth. A high-performance culture pushes some to succeed—while pushing others straight to burnout. In the race to rise to the top, there’s a hidden danger lurking behind success: the ‘go-to’ person....

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The Case Against Experience

The Case Against Experience

Every job seeker knows the frustration: you find an entry-level job posting that sounds perfect—until you see those dreaded words: “1–2 years of experience required.” We’ve all been there. Whether as a recent grad or someone new to an industry, you hit a wall that...

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Using Empathy

Using Empathy

I called to talk about business. As I usually do. When I called, I had my agenda of things I needed to discuss. There is a pressing issue that needs to be addressed. As a man not keen on wasting others' time, I immediately dispensed with the formal pleasantries and...

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A Simple Way to Lead Your Team

A Simple Way to Lead Your Team

Leadership is about creating environments where people can thrive—not just as employees but as individuals. Yet, in today’s always-on work culture, we often forget the most straightforward truth: people need space to breathe, connect, and grow. That’s why I believe...

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Why Does Your Company Exist?

Why Does Your Company Exist?

Have you ever thought about why your organization exists? It may seem like an odd question, but it’s a vital one. Just ask Satya Nedella, CEO of Microsoft. The moment he took charge, he posed this question to his team not just for introspection but as a fascinating...

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